It’s time to change the chip. It is time to overcome your emotional insecurity and change some teachings that we have since birth, which taught us in an almost immovable way, and in most times it has not led us to anything extraordinary.
To change it, you will have all the factors against that the same community provides us in our minds immediately:
The first thing we think about is money, failure, the difficulty of achieving it, the competition, how are you going to do it? Well, and many more phrases that contribute to your emotional insecurity…
Easy, it’s not, but somehow it’s possible; because someone always started like you and me, with our position of uncertainty but with the difference of having a thought of success, with an attitude of personal growth and triumph in what he was thinking to create.
And by this someone I mean all the people or families who achieved what they always wanted. Think that some member of the family had to have gone through the same situation that you and I have gone through; if past, because this must be overcome and move on.
Pretend that there is no excuse or opinion that eliminates the desire to carry out that project. For example, imagine that there is no other way to earn extra money, other than through your own meansand not working in a company.
What would you do to get the money? Let your imagination fly (provided it is something legal and honest), begin to modify your emotional insecurity, structure your life, decree success every second of the day, it can be as easy or as difficult as you you determine it.
How to overcome your emotional insecurity and lack of self-confidence:
Here are the five items that are the challenge, to radically change the emotional insecurity or mediocrity that exists:
1. Be grateful
Wake up every day and the first thing you should do is give thanks for everything around you: first of all your family, the loved ones who are always with you, supporting you at all times. In the same way of the material things that you already have in your possession and those that you will have.
Be grateful in every moment and feel full, satisfied, successful.
2. Trust yourself:
Leave your fears behind, they have taken you to nothing. Start with small actions to start trusting your abilities and skills, since you are the owner of your path. Make the decision to get out of your comfort zone.
Keep in mind that time is passing and it will never stop, so give rise to changes now, remember that every day is a new opportunity to start.
There will be sorrows and glories, as in everything, but it is in your hands to change or continue to regret what you have not done (which implies continuing to cultivate your emotional insecurity). And remember the most they will tell you is no, but from now on these two letters are going to mean something new:
NO = New Opportunity
I fully believe in you, and you?
3. Be disciplined:
If you think about it, do it! Stop promising other people, promise yourself that your actions have an end, that you may not see the results immediately, but every time you move forward, you are weaving and creating your present.
Have a routine with habits that contribute to you as a person and later as an entrepreneur.
Remember that you are the entrepreneur of your own life, and like any company you have a mission (the reason for being, your essence) and a view (what you want to achieve, the goal, your dream.
It is not learning how to be a millionaire or travel, because those consequences of your dream come true, define where you want to go and everything will be easier).
Of course, everything you do must be an image of your values, of helping others, of seeking the best through your abilities, and not of affecting others.
Having a vision of your life, you are very clear about where you are going and what you are going to do. Remember that your actions make habits.
Stop saying it and start acting, thought without action is like trying to build a castle without laying the first stone. You will not learn how to be a better person because you think about it a lot, you must act.
4. Successful Thinking:
When we want to change the situation, the first thought is usually failure. Something that all it does is increase your emotional insecurity. If you think this will happen, don’t even try it, or else you will be misleading advertising for those who are capable of doing it.
And if you try and fail, try again, since he who has a very clear vision of life knows that there is no obstacle that can stop him or make him change his mind.
While you are in this process, your thinking should only be positive, even if you need success phrases to help you; do not give it much importance if the result was not what you wanted, since each stage is leading you to your vision, then you must have it very clear so that each action you perform has a reason.
The phrase that I will show you below, keep it in your mind, in every second of your day. It is one of the motivational phrases that I have read, and I have even learned it, so that every day it is that force that helps me when one or a thousand piranhas find me, it is from the author Napoleon Hill and it has helped me with my emotional insecurity. This one says…
“I will not allow any other person’s influence and opinion to penetrate my spirit that is not in accordance with my purpose”
How did you think? You cannot deny the depth and meaning that these words have to be the shield of all the opinions, suggestions or simple words that any person tells us at all times, that influence your emotional insecurity.
Then decree, decree at all times, that it will be an excellent day, that you are the happiest person in the world, that you will travel, that you found the necessary people to move forward, that you achieved love…
Well anyway, everything you want, if you don’t ask for it and do it for it, it won’t come, don’t hesitate, never doubt, even if everything goes against you… keep in mind that:
When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the plane takes off against the wind: Henry Ford
Decree that you live in abundance, in full abundance. She always accompanies that feeling with gratitude and humility.
Stop worrying that this one, the other or that one, is doing well or better than you. Leave envy, that will not get you anywhere, and the other, whom you envy, will do better. Begin to create your own path and you will overcome your emotional insecurity.
5. Mutual benefit
It has always seemed so illogical to me that we do not understand that if both parties feel good, feel supported by each other, everything will work in a better way, with a better environment, a better work and personal environment.
The agreement, the business that is carried out with a win-win will give a prolonged relationship and many times without any term; the parties will feel that they made the best decision and will not hesitate to repeat it.
I clarify, I am not saying that in a business there should be an equal profit, far from it, I tell you that if the parties feel satisfied and do not feel robbed, defrauded or that the conditions have changed, this will change the situation of our team of work, our families and our society.
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Stop taking advantage of the situation or people, should be the first lesson they should give usone of those invaluable life lessons, but in this case it must be our first change.
In conclusion, I still hope and fully dream that the world will come to understand that if both parties learn how to be happy, the problems would not exist in such a radical way as they are right now.
On the contrary, you want the best towards others -especially towards those who do not have a good relationship with you- and you will feel better, because how we act towards others is how we feel about ourselves.
Start having these five items in your habits and you will see how your life will take an extraordinary turn and you will begin to eliminate your emotional insecurity.
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Written by Andrea Jaes
Cucuteña, 23 years old, resident in the city of Bogotá for 14 years. She is passionate about curiosity, innovation, business and technology. She loves reading, extreme sports and horses.